Bernadeane Speaks Out
 A new kind of woman
It’s really important for females not to be a female, not to come from the female chemistry. You have the body of a female. Be proud of that, that’s wonderful. But don’t be the female that has always been. There has to be a female that starts coming forth that isn’t the bitch anymore. The female that isn’t in control all the time, acting like she’s this little wimp with her man, but she’s this controlling force behind him. The male has to let go of the male chemistry. But it’s so vital that we as females don’t play the mother role.
Don’t be a mother. Don’t be a grandmother. Don’t be a wife. Don’t be subject to your man. Don’t be subject to your children. Don’t be subject to your mother, your father. Don’t be a matriarch. You know, the queen of all that she’s brought forth, and wants to be looked at that way.
I told my children years ago, don’t celebrate me on Mother’s Day. I don’t want any Mother’s Day cards. I don’t want Mother’s Day gifts. I want us to have an experiencing of one another that isn’t of mother and child. Let’s experience something more in our lives.
Don’t be a granny. I can’t be a granny. I’m not a granny. I just don’t get that. And I am determined never to get it. I have two grandchildren according to the genetic plan, but I’m not living according to that. I love them as my life, that’s it. That’s as far as it goes.
I’m not here to hold the family together. Don’t get caught up in that, trying to hold the family together. Let it be that you so expand as an immortal body that you're known that way by your family. You are known as a new person, a new species of humankind here, and you’re not following the old rules and the old patterns.
Be clear here. I didn’t say not to love your children. Nor did I say you’re not to be a female person anymore. I’m talking about the chemistry we’ve been born and trained into and we have to let it go.
Bernadeane
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