I wouldn't live with the man I live with if I wasn't going to be true to him, but I'm not bound to him. I do that which I really need to do in my body with each one of you. I touch down with you the way I need to. I'm not thinking is my man going to like it or not. I don't care what he likes. I'm doing what I feel. I don't give a damn if he likes that I'm going somewhere with you, I'm not asking him if it's okay, it's okay with me. I'm true to him. All you have to do is be true to your mate. Give them honesty. Give them the love you were meant to give them.
Don't live in any kind of a mystery with each other. Get right down to the fine points. Don't be intimidated to open something that you're in question about with another person. It's so important not to be locked in to any kind of a relationship where you can't move freely.
Be with the person you're with, give them your whole self - really give them yourself. But then, let it be that you can move freely. I believe in being true. Being true, but not being bound. Be true, but not bound up in something where you don't have a freedom of movement to do what your heart says.
I like opening us up to a living we so deserve. The kind of living every one of us should have. If you've been together 40 years don't think that's a long time, be grateful for it. Don't act like oh, we've been together so long and mostly it's pretty damn boring.
Some of you probably don't need to be together anymore because you haven't made the moves to make it really rich and new today. You can actually be together for 45 years, and have a newness happen to you. I love that. I'm for that, but I'm not for you staying together if it's just pure sheer hell all the time. I think that's the worst thing to do. But to think that we're going to drop that situation and go on to another? We'll just create another boring, awful, tight way of life.
I'm thankful for you and I expect our togetherness to get better all the time. I expect our touch for one another to bring about changes in our physical form. I'm here to walk with you forever. I was born to be with you and I believe you were born to be with me. Let's not fix that and make it a certain kind of way of being together. Be so wide open with each other to enjoy new and fresh. Make your life on a daily basis what you want it to be. Make it rich, make it fulfilling. Let us take everything we experience and move.